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Originally Posted by cre8flow
i dont understand the black apologist comment
its obvious that a lot of black men have been brought up without a father in the household
this is a fact
in a sense this is like starting a football game on your 5 yard line without a coach during the entire game
in their formative years they were not instilled with confidence and with pride-many of their fathers are in prison and or have been murdered
many have overcome this but many have not
that is how life goes-some overcome and some dont
no ideas from social scientists or academic people will change this
if a woman is raped repeatedly is she a victim
generally trauma does ensue-social scientist or not
the difficult thing is how does a victim not see himself or herself as a victim-such a perspective prevents healing
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Many have NOT overcome that, you and Aly comment on this subject from a academic point
of view, I comment from my life expierences, one is not better than the other just different.
You can go to A.A. meetings and make judgements,you can go to school near K and A in
Philly and see the despair and desperation, but until you actually have lived that life it is hard
to explain why people who are in that lifestyle OR have come out of that lifestyle don't give
2 schitts about the thoughts of the Alys of the world,he can apoligize for their behavior if
he wants BUT they don't want or need him to. Thats my opinion.